Mahdi Ahmed

Scripting waves of imagination from the sunny side of the Maldives.

Posts tagged ‘Phuket’

WE CHOSE THE ROAD

We married on December 16, 2004.

Ten days later, the ocean tried to take us back.

Phuket was meant to be a soft beginning—sand, salt, slow mornings, the luxury of being newly married and slightly lost in each other. We were young enough to believe the world was mostly kind.

On December 26, kindness took the morning off.

The day didn’t announce itself as dangerous. The sky looked ordinary. The sea looked calm. If danger had a color or a smell, maybe we would have noticed. Instead, it arrived disguised as silence.

We stepped out for a walk. A small decision. A forgettable one—except it wasn’t. My wife wanted the road, not the beach. She always preferred movement to stillness. I followed, without knowing I was following instinct disguised as love.

Then the world cracked open.

While we were inside a beach shop, a girl ran in screaming. I didn’t understand her words, but I understood her fear. Outside, the chaos grew louder.

Panic isn’t cinematic. It’s clumsy. People trip. They shout in languages that collide mid-air. Time bends. I remember boats being dragged toward the shore. I remember my wife’s grip on my hand—tight, commanding, absolute. In that moment, she wasn’t my wife of ten days. She was gravity.

We ran. We climbed. We didn’t ask questions. A stranger’s truck stopped. We didn’t thank him properly. Survival doesn’t wait for manners. As the wave swallowed everything below, we stood higher than we deserved to be.

That day taught us something terrifying and holy: life can change its mind without warning.

We spent the night wrapped in borrowed blankets, surrounded by strangers who felt like mirrors. No one slept. At dawn, we walked through a city that no longer recognized itself. The sea had written its signature everywhere.

Only later did we understand the scale. Numbers too large to hold. Entire coastlines erased. Families undone. We survived a story that ended for hundreds of thousands of others.

That knowledge never sits comfortably. It shouldn’t.

What stayed with me wasn’t fear, but humility—the understanding that our marriage didn’t begin with certainty. It began with mercy. We didn’t promise each other forever in a vacuum. We promised it on borrowed ground.

Twenty-one years later, I see that day everywhere.

Bills. Loss. Parenthood. Fear dressed up as routine. None of it as loud as the wave, but all of it just as real. And every time, without thinking, we do what we did that morning.

We choose the road.
We move together.
We don’t wait for proof.

We survived the sea.

The rest of life, we face the same way— hand in hand, alert, grateful, and awake.

THE DAY THE WAVES CAME

Five days into our marriage, we found ourselves in the vibrant chaos of Patong, Phuket. It was supposed to be the beginning of forever—a honeymoon of exploration, indulgence, and laughter. We stayed at the Patong Resort, soaking in the local flavors, sightseeing and marveling at the flamboyant performances of Simon Cabaret. Life, then, seemed generous, as if offering us its best. But just as quickly, it reminded us of its unpredictability.

It was Boxing Day, the final morning of our stay. The plan was simple: leave Phuket for Bangkok at midday, then return home with memories of sunsets, James Bond Island, spicy curries, and carefree adventures. My wife, with her characteristic determination, insisted we take one last stroll along Beach Road. I hesitated, preferring the comfort of the hotel lobby, but her persistence was unyielding. That decision, trivial at the time, would come to define the rest of our lives.

The morning felt strangely off. The usual bustle of tourists was absent, replaced by an eerie silence that hung heavily in the humid air. The sea, normally alive with activity, seemed unnaturally still. My wife, for reasons she couldn’t explain, carried our passports, tickets, and cash in her handbag—a break from our routine of locking them safely away. Looking back, it felt like she knew something I didn’t.

We wandered aimlessly along the tarred road, the beach stretching out beside us, gradually moving further away from the safety of our hotel. She stopped at a small bikini shop to browse, a moment so mundane it seemed destined to fade into obscurity. Then, out of nowhere, a young girl burst into the shop, her voice trembling with panic. Her words were in Thai, but her fear was universal. The shopkeeper dropped everything and ran outside. Confused, we followed.

The world outside had unraveled. Shouts pierced the air, mingling with the distant roar of something vast and unrelenting. Through the palm trees, I caught a glimpse of boats surging inland, tossed by an invisible hand. My instincts screamed to get closer, to see the source of the commotion—a foolhardy Maldivian trait to rush toward danger rather than away. But my wife, her instincts honed by years of UN training, gripped my hand with iron resolve. “Run,” she said, her voice cutting through my haze of curiosity.

We ran. Blindly. Desperately. The air buzzed with chaos—children crying, car horns blaring, the frantic shouts of strangers. A single word rose above it all: “Waves!” The realization struck like a physical blow. This wasn’t an explosion or a riot; it was the ocean, reclaiming its dominion.

The road to higher ground felt endless. Each step was a struggle as my lungs burned and my legs faltered, but my wife’s hand never let go. A pickup truck, loaded with locals and tourists, screeched to a halt beside us. The driver gestured frantically, and we scrambled aboard, clutching at the metal sides as it sped toward the hills. The truck reeked of fish, a grim reminder of the sea from which we were fleeing.

When the road ended, we climbed a steep path leading up the hill, driven by the relentless tide of fear surging behind us. On the hill, we joined a crowd of silent, hollow-eyed survivors. The horizon, once a line of beauty, was now a jagged edge of terror. News trickled in: the tsunami had devastated coastlines across the Indian Ocean, even reaching the fragile islands of the Maldives. The thought of our flat homeland swallowed by the sea was unbearable. We prayed—desperate, faltering prayers to Allah for mercy, for survival, for our families, for forgiveness.

That night, we huddled under borrowed blankets on the veranda of a local’s home. The cries of the injured and bereaved punctuated the darkness. Sleep was a distant luxury. Instead, we clung to each other, whispering prayers into the abyss, each one a lifeline to a merciful Creator.

At dawn, we ventured cautiously back to our hotel. The landscape was unrecognizable. Boats were lodged inside buildings, cars upended like children’s toys, and debris blanketed everything in sight. The once-bustling streets were now graveyards of shattered lives and dreams. We picked our way through the destruction, our shoes caked with mud and grime, the weight of survival pressing heavily on our hearts.

The hotel lobby, once a haven of comfort, was now a whirlwind of panic. Guests frantically scrambled to leave, their faces reflecting the same mix of terror and disbelief etched on our own. After an hour of walking along the main street, amidst a throng of fleeing tourists, we managed to hail a tuk-tuk. Miraculously, the airport was operational, and against all odds, we were able to check in. Hours later, we landed in Bangkok, greeted not by the relief we had hoped for, but by the sobering reality of the nightmare we had narrowly escaped.

It was only when we turned on the television that the full scale of the devastation unfolded. The death toll climbed relentlessly, each number a soul lost. Images of destruction flashed across the screen: villages erased, families torn apart, lives ended in a heartbeat. We wept—not just for the lives lost, but for the fragile line that had separated us from them.

In the twenty years since that day, the memory has never faded. The ocean, so often a representation of bounty and beauty, revealed its other face—a stark reminder of life’s fragility and Allah’s power. My wife’s instincts, the stranger’s truck, the split-second decisions—they weren’t mere coincidences. They were whispers of mercy guiding us to safety.

The scars of that day remain, engraved not only in the landscapes we left behind but also in our souls. We honor those who perished by embracing the gift of a second chance. Every day since has been a reminder to live with purpose, to love fiercely, and to never forget how close we came to the edge.

We didn’t just survive the tsunami. We were awakened by it. Life is fragile, fleeting, and immeasurably precious—a lesson we learned on the day the waves came to teach us all.