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MY MOTHER: THE BEST PART OF MY MORNINGS

Every year, today, the Maldives celebrates Republic Day.

And my mother celebrates her birthday.

I’ve always found that rather amusing. The entire nation gets a public holiday, flags go up, and celebrations take place. I’m not suggesting the country arranged all this for her, but knowing my mother, I wouldn’t entirely rule out the possibility.

This year has been particularly special for her.

Just three months ago, my mother received the National Award of Honour for her remarkable contribution to broadcasting.

Nearly four decades of service. A voice that became part of countless Maldivian homes.

But today, I want to celebrate the woman behind that familiar voice.

The mother who once handed a little boy a ten-sheet drawing book, unknowingly setting him on a lifelong journey of storytelling.

And the woman I now have the privilege of sharing breakfast with every morning.

For the past three years, this has become our little ritual. I sit with my mother over breakfast, and we talk about everything under the sun. Family, memories, politics, films, the world, and sometimes absolutely nothing important.

Just like two best friends having a conversation over coffee.

I cannot think of a more rewarding way to begin my day.

There are little things about these mornings that I have grown particularly fond of.

My mother has arthritis, which makes reaching certain things on the breakfast table difficult. She would point towards the bananas or her special portion of breakfast, and I would pass them to her.

These days, I’ve learned to arrange everything within her reach before she even sits down.

She no longer needs to point.

It’s such a small thing. But as I grow older, I’m beginning to understand that love often lives in these little gestures.

This is the same woman who spent much of her life looking after us. Now, being able to do something as simple as arranging her breakfast gives me a happiness I cannot quite put into words.

Since my father passed away, I’ve become more conscious of how precious these ordinary moments are. The conversations we take for granted. The laughter. The familiar voice across the table.

And the comfort of knowing she is there when another morning begins.

At fifty-five, I’m still that little boy with a head full of stories. Only now, I understand who first encouraged him to tell them.

The nation honoured my mother for the voice she gave its people.

I celebrate her for the love she gave me.

Happy Birthday, mother.

May Allah bless you with good health, happiness, peace, and many more beautiful years with us. Aameen.

With all my love.

THE REAL SCRIPT DOCTORS

In my profession, we use big words.

“Character arcs.”
“Inner strength.”
“Resilience.”
“Transformation.”

We build women on paper. We debate their resilience. We engineer their courage. We sit around tables trying to make fictional characters feel real.

And yet, if I am honest, nothing I have ever written comes close to the women who shaped me.

The First Storyboard

My mother did something quietly radical.

She didn’t tell a dreamy boy to be practical.

She didn’t warn me that stories don’t pay bills.

She didn’t drag my head out of the clouds.

She handed me a ten-sheet drawing book.

That was it.

No speech. No grand encouragement. Just belief — folded into paper.

That little stack became my first storyboard.

While she worked at the radio station and raised eight children with a steadiness that felt almost supernatural, she was teaching me structure. Not cinematic structure. Life structure.

Wake up. Show up. Carry what must be carried. Repeat.

She was a quiet force. The kind of strength that doesn’t need volume. The kind that doesn’t need applause.

Sometimes when I write a resilient female lead, I smile.

Because I know I am not creating her.

I am remembering her.

The Architecture of Strength

Strength is often misunderstood.

We think it is loud.

We think it wins arguments.

We think it dominates rooms.

But real strength is architectural.

It holds weight without complaint.

It absorbs shock without collapsing.

It adapts without announcing the adjustment.

You don’t notice it — until you lean on it.

And most of us spend years leaning on it before we recognize it.

The Producer of My Life

Then there is my wife.

My muse. My fiercest critic. The silent producer of our daily production.

When I am stuck in the messy middle of Act Two — doubting plot points, rearranging scenes, chasing perfection — she is running something far more complex.

A family.

Schedules. Emotions. Responsibilities.

The invisible labor that never makes the end credits.

She reads my scripts and tells me when something rings true — and when I am hiding behind cleverness.

That kind of honesty is rare.

I may have the public credit.

She ensures the work is possible.

And that realization does something awards cannot.

It humbles you.

Living With the Strongest Characters

For years, I tried to write “strong female characters.”

I gave them sharp dialogue. Defiance. Bold decisions.

But the strongest women in my life rarely perform strength.

They practice it.

Daily.

They endure without theatrics.

They adapt without complaint.

They build without announcement.

Their resilience is not dramatic.

It is disciplined.

It is not scripted.

It is lived.

The Uncredited Editors

If I look carefully at my life, most of what I value was not taught through speeches.

It was demonstrated.

Patience.

Consistency.

Grace under pressure.

Emotional intelligence.

Not explained.

Modeled.

Many of us build careers standing on foundations we did not pour.

We accept applause supported by scaffolding we did not construct.

And only later do we realize who the real script doctors were.

They didn’t just support the story.

They shaped the storyteller.

Happy Women’s Day.